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143 | Are You Embracing the Big Picture? How to Dodge Nit-Picky Behavior and Zoom Out!

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, your host Heather Pettey takes you on a hilarious journey through the art of avoiding nit-picky behavior and zooming out for a broader perspective. Join the laughter as Heather shares relatable anecdotes, like the time she received XL satin pajamas as a surprise gift, and the hilarious mix-up that ensued. Learn how to dodge nit-picky pitfalls by embracing the bigger picture and handling nit-pickers with grace.
Heather also explores the humorous side of misunderstandings and how taking a zoomed-out approach can prevent unnecessary drama, illustrated by a funny encounter involving her dog's unique screaming habit. Discover the powerful lesson from Psalm 139:2 and how it applies to our lives, reminding us that focusing on the positive is key. Tune in for a dose of humor, insight, and a reminder to let go of nit-picky tendencies and embrace a life that's full of joy and laughter.
Contact Host, Heather Pettey:
Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website:
www.HeatherPettey.com
Purchase Keep It Simple Sarah
 
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 28 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 26, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 
 

142 | Future Empty Nesters’: Exploring Beach vs. Lake Retreats, Retirement Dreams, and Reviewing a Recent Trip to Heber Springs, AR

Join Life Coach BFF Show host, Heather and her husband David, as they embark on an exciting discussion with a twist—this time, it's a husband's perspective! Discover the delightful dynamics of future empty nesters as they weigh the pros and cons of beach and lake destinations, and get a sneak peek into their retirement dreams. Plus, dive into their recent adventure in the picturesque Heber Springs, Arkansas, where they unravel the beauty and serenity of this charming locale. Don't miss this episode packed with insights and inspiration for your own future getaways!
 
Mentioned in this episode:
 
Red Apple In and Country Club
https://www.redappleinn.com
 
Peggy Sue's Place Facebook
El Rey Mexican Restaurant Facebook
Eden Isle Marina
Contact Host, Heather Pettey:
Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website:
www.HeatherPettey.com
Purchase Keep It Simple Sarah
 
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 28 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 26, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 

141 | Do You Have a Dirty Dessert Secret? We’re Dishing it Out: Indulge in our Skillet S’mores Dip Recipe

Welcome to Episode 141 of the Life Coach BFF Show! In this delectable episode, we're spilling all the dirty dessert secrets that will leave your taste buds begging for more. Get ready to satisfy your sweet tooth as we dive into the sinfully delicious world of indulgent treats.
We'll uncover the ultimate guilty pleasure: a mouthwatering recipe for Skillet S'mores Dip. Picture melted chocolate, gooey marshmallows, and the perfect graham cracker crunch, all combined in one skillet of pure dessert bliss. We'll guide you step-by-step through this decadent creation, ensuring that your next gathering or solo indulgence is nothing short of extraordinary.
Thanks again for listening!
 
Skillet S'more's Dip
3 tablespoons butter
1-1/2 cup semi sweet chocolate chops
1-1/2 cup milk chocolate chips
6 tablespoons peanut butter
mini marshmallows
 
1. Preheat oven to 450°.
2. Heat iron skillet on low on stove and melt butter coating bottom and sides of skillet.
3. Turn heat off.
4. Pour chocolate chips in skillet.
5. Space tablespoons of peanut butter in skillet about 2 inches apart, then use tip of knife to swirl.
6. Put a thin layer of marshmallows on top.
7. Place in oven for 6 to 7 minutes.
8. Remove skillet when marshmallows are golden .
9. Place skillet on trivet- it will be HOT. Use caution when children are around.
10. Server with graham crackers.
 
Contact Host, Heather Pettey:
Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website:
www.HeatherPettey.com
Purchase Keep It Simple Sarah
 
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 27 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 25, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 

140 | Let’s Help Mama From Maine Find Balance and Get Back to the Basics : Navigating Caregiving and Parenthood Simultaneously Without Losing Your Mind

In this episode of the podcast Life Coach BFF Show, your host Heather Pettey dives into the life of Candice, a devoted daughter from Maine, who finds herself juggling the responsibilities of being a mother of five while taking care of her aging mother. As always, Heather is ready to lend a helping hand and provide practical guidance to help Candice regain balance and prioritize her own well-being.
Join Heather as she explores the challenges faced by individuals who find themselves in similar situations, and learn how to navigate the complexities of caregiving, parenting, and self-care. Heather shares invaluable insights and tips on how to find solace amidst the chaos and rediscover the importance of tending to one's own needs.
To lighten the mood and bring some joy to the discussion, Heather announces exciting plans for a candle giveaway. Tune in this week on social media @LifeCoachBFF to find out how you can participate and add a touch of tranquility to your own life.
Whether you're a caregiver, a parent, or simply seeking to regain your footing in a demanding world, this episode offers a compassionate and practical approach to help you reconnect with the basics. Don't miss out on the wisdom and warmth that Heather brings to each episode of the Life Coach BFF Show. Grab your favorite beverage, light a candle, and let's embark on this transformative journey together.
Mentioned in this episode:
Pioneer Woman - Ree Drummond
Marshalls
Contact Host, Heather Pettey:
Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website:
www.HeatherPettey.com
Purchase Keep It Simple Sarah
 
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 27 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 25, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 

139 | Rise and Shine: Christian Women’s Path to Spiritual Growth, Personal Empowerment, and Overcoming Challenges

Welcome to the Life Coach BFF Show! In this episode, we dive deep into the remarkable journey of self-discovery and personal growth that Christian women embark on. Join us as we explore the incredible capacity within us to push ourselves, nurturing our spirituality along the way
In "Rise and Shine: Christian Women's Path to Spiritual Growth, Personal Empowerment, and Overcoming Challenges," we uncover the transformative power of faith as a catalyst for our inner strength.
Hopefully, you will be Get ready to be inspired, motivated, and uplifted by today's episode. Thanks for joining me!
Xo,
Heather
 
Mentioned in this episode:
•Reading written by Ashley.Morgan Jackson
Instagram @Ashley.Morgan.Jackson
• 133 | How to Protect Your Family From Spiritual Warfare: Unleashing the 7-Step Battleplan for Spiritual Warfare, Inspired by Psalms 18 with Stefanie Gass
Contact Host, Heather Pettey:
Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website:
www.HeatherPettey.com
Purchase Keep It Simple Sarah
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 27 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 25, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
Today's Sponsor:
Desoto Floor Covering & Interior
10886 DeSoto Rd.
Olive Branch, MS 38654
www.desotofloors.com
662•408•4660
 
 
 
 

138 | Navigating Life Without Your Village, Transitions, Moving with 4 Kids, Breaking Out of Slumps, and Embracing Peaceful Living on the Green with Jasmine Green on Her Podcast Millennial Housewife

Hey BFF! Thanks for joining me in episode 138 of Life Coach BFF Show! I'm talking with Jasmin Reed on her podcast Millennial Housewife about how to slay life when it's completely unpredictable! How do you keep from crawling in a hole and shriveling up??!
Life is so unpredictable, but we need to know how to adapt both physically and mentally.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
•How to live on green.
•Transitioning to a new city with your family.
•How to stop the "fight or flight" cycle.
Thank you again for being the BEST podcast audience and BFF a girl could EVER ask for!
Contact Guest, Jasmin Reed:
email Jasmin here:millennialhousewifepodcast@gmail.com
Listen to more: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/millennial-housewife/id1612009281
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Connect with Host Heather Pettey:
Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com
Speaker Request HereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)Facebook Group: @midlifemoxieWebsite: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com
Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 

137 | Unleashing Your Brilliance: Why Women Should Be Themselves and Shine Like Diamonds

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey discusses why women should embrace their uniqueness and shine bright like diamonds. Drawing analogies from the beauty of diamonds, she shares three compelling reasons why women should not feel pressured to blend in with the crowd. Tune in to unleash your brilliance and be inspired to be your authentic self! Psalm 139 :14
Embracing your unique sparkle
Be the disco ball, not the wallflower
Life is too short for boring
Unleashing your brilliance
Learn why women should be themselves and shine like diamonds!
Items mentioned in this episode:
Shop Bathing Suit
 
Today's Sponsor:
Desoto Floor Covering & Interior
10886 DeSoto Rd.
Olive Branch, MS 38654
www.desotofloors.com
662•408•4660
Connect with Host Heather Pettey:
Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com
Speaker Request HereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)Facebook Group: @midlifemoxieWebsite: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com
Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

136 | It Was a Roller Coaster for This Mom: From a Week of Basketball Tournaments to a Possible Wedding… to Organizing the Pantry

Welcome to another exciting episode of the Life Coach BFF Show with your host, Heather Pettey! In this episode, Heather shares her summer adventures as a mom of four kids with varying ages. From spending days at basketball tournaments with her 11 and 14-year-olds to the rollercoaster of emotions surrounding her second daughter's boyfriend potentially moving, there's never a dull moment in Heather's household. And if that wasn't enough, her oldest daughter is expecting a baby in September, bringing even more joy and anticipation to the summer.
But it's not all about the chaos of motherhood. Heather also dives into practical tips for organizing your pantry and kitchen drawers. Discover expert tips to conquer pantry chaos, including categorizing items, investing in clear containers, and using shelf dividers to keep everything in order. Plus, Heather reveals organizing tools on Amazon that will transform your kitchen space.
Thank you for joining us on this fun-filled episode of the Life Coach BFF Show. Be sure to tap the plus sign in the top right corner of your screen to subscribe and never miss an episode. And if you love what you hear, please take a few seconds to leave a review. Your support means the world to us.
Tune in, laugh, learn, and let's embark on this journey of growth and transformation together. Enjoy the show!
I hope this episode blesses you!
Items mentioned in this episode:
Shop Pantry Items Here
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 29 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 13 to 27, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
*Quick Disclaimer- I'm a coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
Today's Sponsor:
Desoto Floor Covering & Interior
10886 DeSoto Rd.
Olive Branch, MS 38654
www.desotofloors.com
662•408•4660
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Connect with Host Heather Pettey:
Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com
Speaker Request HereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)Facebook Group: @midlifemoxieWebsite: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com
Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 

135 | Conflict Between Best Friends and Restoring Harmony in Conflict; Why Do Words Matter: 7 Things to Say to Yourself Everyday - Empowering Women with Positive Self-Talk

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, join host Heather Pettey as she delves into the transformative power of positive self-talk. Discover how the words you say to yourself can shape your mindset, boost your confidence, and propel you towards success and happiness.
Heather shares practical tips and seven empowering affirmations to start your day on a positive note. Plus, she addresses a common conflict between friends and offers guidance on restoring harmony through open communication and empathy. Tune in and unlock the incredible potential within you through the power of positive self-talk.
I hope this episode blesses you!
Heather's Bio:
Heather is a perfectly imperfect wife of 27 years to David, mom to 4 amazing humans ages 11 to 25, and lover of Jesus. She's a closet peanut M&M and Goldfish cracker consumer.
Heather is passionate about encouraging women to find joy and remain sane while parenting teens. The laughter and support happens weekly on her podcast, Life Coach BFF Show. When not podcasting or curating for CLUB BFF Mastermind (a membership for Christian moms of teens), she's coaching moms to live confidently, set clear boundaries, and learn to build their fire in the rain. Heather is also the author of Keep It Simple, Sarah: Powerful Words and Encouragement for Christian Teen Girls.
Heather has made appearances on CNN Headline News and other media. She believes life is a long line of lessons, and in her opinion, it’s all about faith and
good ol' common sense. She happily resides with her family in Memphis, TN.
Today's Sponsor:
Desoto Floor Covering & Interior
10886 DeSoto Rd.
Olive Branch, MS 38654
www.desotofloors.com
662•408•4660
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Connect with Host Heather Pettey:
Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com
Speaker Request HereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)Facebook Group: @midlifemoxieWebsite: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com
Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 
 

134 | Ever Feel Rejected by Your Teen or Young Adult? We’re Redefining Rejection and How Moms Navigate Teen Drama and Unconditional Love

Hey Mama! We all feel rejected by our teen and young adults sometimes. On this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, we’ll explore:
•What makes us feel rejection?
•Why kids of all ages tend to blame their parents for EVERYTHING.
•How to deal with rejection from our kids.
I hope this episode blesses you!
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Connect with Host Heather Pettey:
Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com
Speaker Request HereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)Facebook Group: @midlifemoxieWebsite: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com
Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.