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193 | Week 3 of Series Prepping for the Holidays: Decluttering and Staying Productive

In episode 193 of the Life Coach BFF show, host Heather discusses the stresses of navigating school schedules and shares a poignant reminder about self-worth. She then dives into practical tips for midlife women to prepare for the holidays without feeling overwhelmed. These tips include cleaning and organizing key areas of the home, such as windows, kitchen cabinets, and freezers, and setting daily goals for exercise and decluttering. Heather emphasizes the importance of progress over perfection and offers advice for simplifying holiday preparations, all while maintaining a cheerful and supportive tone.
Mentioned in Show:
Krud Kutter found at Lowe's
SHOP items mentioned in the show
Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen
 
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
00:00 Introduction and Family Background
00:15 Parents Night Experience
01:05 A Teacher's Impactful Message
02:06 Purpose of the Holiday Series
02:55 Welcome to Episode 193
03:21 Exercise and Holiday Prep
04:51 Decluttering and Cleaning Tips
06:20 Kitchen Organization
09:31 Holiday Shopping and Preparation
11:08 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

192 | Learn How a Midlife Couple Sold It All to Travel the World: Embracing Nomadic Freedom with Jamie Weil

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather is joined by author and full-time world traveler, Jamie Weil. Jamie, along with her husband, sold their home, put their belongings in storage, and embraced a nomadic lifestyle. They discuss the freedom from traditional responsibilities, navigating travel with a large dog, and how intentional living in different places builds new neural pathways. Jamie shares the impact on their grown children, the logistics of their travels, and dives into her writing journey that spans diverse and impactful topics. Tune in for an inspiring chat about living with purpose and the joys of exploring the world.
 
 
Stay in touch with Jamie:
Subscribe: A Mermaid’s Tale Substack 
Facebook @jamieweilwriteshttps://l.facebook.com/l.php?
IG @jamieweilwrites
https://www.amazon.com/author/jamieweil
Jamie's Author Page 
SHOP items mentioned in the show
Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen
 
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to a Nomadic Lifestyle
01:26 Meet Jamie Weil: Author and World Traveler
02:17 Unexpected Connections and Conversations
03:48 The Joys and Challenges of Full-Time Travel
12:05 Navigating Life with a Dog on the Road
17:03 Community Support for Pets
17:31 Regional Dog Preferences
18:57 Life Without a Permanent Home
21:53 Parenting Philosophy and College Transition
23:13 Favorite Travel Destinations
26:11 Upcoming Travel Plans
27:34 Writing Career and Published Works
30:50 Following Jamie's Journey
 

191 | Top 10 Things to Do This Week to Prepare for Thanksgiving (Week 2 of 8-Part Holiday Series)

Hey Friend! Thanks for joining me for episode 191 of the podcast Life Coach BFF Show! Today, I'm sharing my family's tradition of making turkey breast nuggets wrapped in bacon, suggestions for gluten-free options, reminder to plan ahead for special dietary needs, tips for making holiday preparations more manageable and less stressful, and more tips for you to make life better!
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"Keep it simple, put your lip gloss on, smile, stay fabulous, and embrace your mid-life Moxie."
SHOP items mentioned
Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 

190 | Let's Get Organized and Jingle Your Way to a Stress-Free Holiday! (Week 1 of 8-Part Holiday Series)

Hey Friend, thanks for joining in today!
In episode 190 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey introduces a new series aimed at helping midlife women efficiently plan for the holiday season to reduce stress and enhance enjoyment. With statistics revealing that many women experience significant stress and dread during the holidays, Heather offers practical tips and strategies for calendar management to prevent chaos.
This episode focuses on scheduling non-negotiable events, organizing holiday activities, and preparing mentally, physically, and spiritually for the season. Heather emphasizes the importance of early planning to foster joy, budgeting effectively, and avoiding last-minute rushes. She encourages listeners to start plotting known events on their calendars and to approach the holidays with a sense of calm and intentionality.
Mentioned in this episode:
Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen
112 | Two Moms Preparing for The Holidays Mentally, Physically, and Spiritually in Arizona and Tennessee: The Placenta Craze!
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
00:00 Introduction: Facing Holiday Dread
00:46 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show
01:02 Holiday Planning Guide: Week One
03:59 Mastering Your Calendar 06:14 Detailed Holiday Preparations
10:20 Final Thoughts and Homework
10:58 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes

189 | Real Talk with Dr. Carol Lynn, OB/GYN: Vaginal Dryness, Chin Hairs & Life's Other Mysteries

 
IHi Friend! In this episode of the 'Life Coach BFF' show featuring host Heather Pettey and guest Dr. Carol Lynn, the duo explore a range of topics pertinent to midlife women. The discussion encompasses the maintenance of meaningful friendships, managing insecurities related to success, and addressing women's health issues like vaginal dryness and UTIs. Additionally, the episode touches on the nuances of giving and receiving compliments, the financial responsibilities of grown children, and relatable personal grooming issues. The conversation also highlights the perils of infections on the face, strategies for handling menopause symptoms, and the challenges of adult children’s schedules. Adding humor, the hosts reflect on unexpected weight gain and vacation competitiveness, the shift in footwear preferences, and light-hearted fashion insights. The show concludes with heartfelt messages and an emphasis on consulting healthcare providers for serious concerns.
For more information on the retreat, visit OurMidlifeMoxie.com.
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Connect with Dr. Lynn:
Linkedin
Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com
Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 
 
00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach BFF Show
00:50 Catching Up with Dr. Carol Lynn
01:02 Weather Talk and Morning Walks
01:44 Things We're Not Okay With
02:27 Vaginal Dryness and Feminine Health
05:01 Friends Who Aren't Happy for Our Successes
10:09 Grown Kids and Their Dependencies
12:17 Unwanted Facial Hair
19:15 Friends Who Bring Drama
22:00 Dealing with Hot Flashes
23:42 Adult Children and Memory Lapses
26:15 Energy-Draining Friends
29:10 The Migration of Fat
36:41 Comfortable Shoes: The New Sexy
41:50 Final Takeaways and Farewell

188 | 5 Things to Do TODAY to Kickstart Your Holiday Prep

Hey friend! Welcome to Episode 188 of the Life Coach BFF Show! In this episode, we dive deep into preparing for the holiday season while embracing our midlife journey. We’ll explore practical tips to prevent overwhelm, share an inspiring listener letter, and discuss the importance of dreaming big in this transformative phase of life.
You will hear:- Understanding the difference between a counselor and a coach: Counselors help you process the past, while coaches guide you toward your future goals.
Resources Mentioned:- Visit [heatherpettey.com](http://heatherpettey.com) to apply for private coaching or learn more about our offerings.- Check out ourmidlifemoxie.com for details on our workshops and community events.
Thank you for tuning in! Remember, midlife is not a crisis but an opportunity to embrace change and growth. Let’s navigate this journey together, supporting one another every step of the way.
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Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
•Apply for Coaching•Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COM•Speaker Request: Click here•Instagram @HeatherPettey_•Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
•Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
•Don't miss the Midlife Moxie Retreat this April! Visit ourmidlifemoxie.com for details and registration.
 
•Sex and Intimacy Workshop with Dr. Carol Lynn: Available at ourmidlifemoxie.com
 
•JOIN Midlife Moxie Facebook Group
 
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*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 

187 | Your Perfect 10: Gratitude, Dreams, and Connection in Midlife

Unlocking Midlife Happiness: The Power of Nine and Heather’s Perfect 10
In this episode of the 'Life Coach BFF Show', Heather Pettey explores the 'Power of Nine' lifestyle habits from the Blue Zones, areas known for their long-lived inhabitants, emphasizing natural movement, purpose, stress reduction, mindful eating, plant-based diets, moderation, social connections, and family.
Heather also introduces her 'Perfect 10' practice, a daily routine of gratitude, excitement, manifestation, and reconnecting with others to enhance midlife joy and purpose. She encourages listeners to dream big and maintain strong personal connections.
Mentioned in this episode:
Lip shade- Nude Stix (Posh)
 01:10 The Power of Nine: Blue Zones Lifestyle
06:36 Heather's Perfect 10: A Personal Practice
07:21 Gratitude, Excitement, and Manifesting
11:35 Challenge for the Week: Your Perfect 10
12:43 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
•Apply for Coaching•Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COM•Speaker Request: Click here•Instagram @HeatherPettey_•Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
•Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
•Don't miss the Midlife Moxie Retreat this April! Visit ourmidlifemoxie.com for details and registration.
 
•Sex and Intimacy Workshop with Dr. Carol Lynn: Available at ourmidlifemoxie.com
 
•JOIN Midlife Moxie Facebook Group
 
Remember to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who could use some midlife encouragement!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 

186 | Thinking About Hiring a Coach for Midlife Women?

In Episode 186 of the Life Coach BFF show, host Heather Pettey addresses listener questions from Sally, Nikki, and Sam. Heather, a life coach, distinguishes her role from counselors, explaining she focuses on achieving life goals and fostering a forward-thinking mindset.
•She advises Sally on the benefits of life coaching for navigating life transitions. 
•In response to Nikki's feelings of jealousy towards her daughter's youth, Heather offers advice on self-acceptance and celebrates midlife. She advises practicing self-love, redefining beauty standards, and embracing one's current strengths and passions.
•For Sam, who struggles with energy management, Heather recommends strategies like adequate sleep, hormone therapy, and energy supplements. She emphasizes finding what works in midlife rather than trying to emulate youth. Heather ends the episode encouraging listeners to embrace midlife as an opportunity.
 
Mentioned in this episode:
Arbonne EnergyFizz Drinks
 
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
•Apply for Coaching•Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COM•Speaker Request: Click here•Instagram @HeatherPettey_•Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
•Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
•Don't miss the Midlife Moxie Retreat this April! Visit ourmidlifemoxie.com for details and registration.
 
•Sex and Intimacy Workshop with Dr. Carol Lynn: Available at ourmidlifemoxie.com
 
•JOIN Midlife Moxie Facebook Group
 
Remember to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who could use some midlife encouragement!
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 
 
 

185 | What are Your Secret Desires: Finding Happiness, Purpose, and Fulfillment

In episode 185 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey dives deep into the secret desires of midlife women, offering insights and encouragement for this transformative life stage.
Learn:
- The difference between happiness and joy- Four habits of the happiest people according to Harvard neuroscientist Arthur Brooks- The importance of finding purpose and sharing your gifts
 
Don't miss the Midlife Moxie Retreat this April! Visit ourmidlifemoxie.com for details and registration.
 
•Sex and Intimacy Workshop with Dr. Carol Lynn: Available at ourmidlifemoxie.com
•Midlife Moxie Facebook Group
Remember to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who could use some midlife encouragement!
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.
 
 
 
 
 

184 | Vulvar Itching and Vaginal Health with Dr. Carol Lynn

Episode 184: Vulvar Itching and Vaginal Health with Dr. Carol Lynn
In this episode, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss an often uncomfortable but important topic for midlife women: vulvar itching and vaginal health. Resources Mentioned:
Register here:
-Sex and Intimacy Workshop in Midlife
- Midlife Moxie private Facebook group
 
You will learn:
- Common causes of vulvar itching, including yeast infections, bacterial infections, and hormonal changes- How to distinguish between different types of itching and when to see a doctor- The impact of menopause on vaginal health and itching- Safe products and treatments for vulvar itching- The connection between sexual activity and vaginal health- When itching may be a sign of more serious conditions
Highlights:
- Dr. Lynn explains why many women are hesitant to discuss vulvar itching with their doctors- Discussion of over-the-counter treatments and when to use them- Tips for maintaining vaginal pH balance and preventing infections- The importance of regular check-ups and open communication with your doctor
Upcoming Retreat:Heather and Dr. Lynn share exciting details about their upcoming midlife women's retreat in Isle of Palm, featuring:
- Beachfront mansion accommodations- Private chef- Massage services- Hormone testing- Breathwork sessions- Group activities
For more information on the retreat, visit OurMidlifeMoxie.com.
Remember to subscribe to never miss an episode of Life Coach BFF Show!
 
Connect with Dr. Lynn:
Linkedin
Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com
Stay connected with Heather:Email: Heather@HeatherPettey.com
Website: WWW.HEATHERPETTEY.COMSpeaker Request: Click hereInstagram @HeatherPettey_Facebook: @HeatherPettey1
Linkedin: @HeatherPettey
*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.